Hi..i am back from 2 dae 1 nite chalet book by my friend..was quite enjoyable...
The 2 kids was fun...which is my ger and Armory...wen at nite is time to slp and my ger wen to slp alreadi but Armory was still playing and the Dad say wana scratch her head for her she fall aslp immediately..
Her husband wen to work in the morning and after that me and my ger wake up cos i couldnt slp the whole nite...we chat and talk through alot of things...
Understand abit of her though i noe her for so long...chat last nite also...i ask her is her bb plan but she told me dun ask the question...i think cos they didnt plan..nw she is unable to work and the husband is going to pay for everything..i wonder if they is able to make it or nt...
Yesterdae we were chatting and was like discussing abt wen the kid is born how its gona be...i believe each got its own bt sometimes something cant be realli go ur way...
She dun think about the future and was like telling me all the thing she seen and belive...If you have a 2nd child and your 1st child is still young, u will pay more attention to the older 1 or the younger 1..To me i will pay the same attention cos if you pay more to the older 1 and the younger 1 will be like...and if the younger 1 the older 1 will get jealous and etc...if i were to have a 2nd 1 , i will pay the same attention and let them have almost the same thing in the case they fight and dun build the bond..
She told me that if u pay more to older 1 u can build back the bond with her and let her feel secure but this doesnt make sure that the younger 1 will feel secure..she is newborn but she still has feeling and newborn bb needs a lot of attention and security...
She dun think to the future yet and she say will think about it wen it happens so let it be ba
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